The story is about a friend… oops a not a friend just a GOLD DIGGER who was with me for quite some time.So talking about the friend she is actually a good player she tries stay in a position where she can pretend to be friends with them,on the other hand where she has different ideas on her mind about how she could actually utilize them for her needs. She was in a different friend circle when we met, apparently she knew her opportunities that she could get from me and started to fade from them other circle, not completely but she still kept them for some other uses.
This continued for months,reached a point where she started to make plans/orders where One errand turned into multiple errands. why was she making me run these errands for her? I felt like her intern, except I wasn’t getting anything out of it. Was I being too good of a friend? Was she taking advantage of my kindness?
She was so good at pretending things that i was not able to take in the whole stuff that she was utilizing me for her happiness. when there happened to be a time like these covid 19 and lockdown. she knew that this corona thing is going to last long and she couldn't make most out of the others, she started making random story about why she was not in contact with any of her interns(friends).
But the funny fact is that even when she was giving out her sad story of not reaching out to her interns(friends), at times when she needs something she would be calling and ordering her interns(friends).
Once I realized what was going on, I broke off the friendship.
Sometimes it can be hard to tell if a friend’s taking advantage of you, or it might take you some time to realize that you’re being taken advantage of.Friendship is a two way thing. There’s give and take, hopefully in equal amounts. We shouldn’t ever feel like we’re being taken advantage of in a friendship — but of course, nobody’s perfect, and unfortunately, not everybody is a good friend.